December 8, 2007

Thoughtful Grandparenting At Christmas

by J Gardener

Most adults enjoy the Christmas season, each year, with its holiday foods, the special concerts and plays and pageants, and of course, all the holiday parties. But as much fun as the holidays promise each year, the joy that adults feel is multiplied tenfold when they become parents and can celebrate Christmas with their children. The family holiday gathering is one of our most common traditions, a time when the extended family of aunts and uncles and cousins get together to celebrate not just the holidays, but their shared love and fellowship. It's also the time when young parents introduce the newest family members to the rest of the brood. But with families so spread out, today, it's becoming more and more difficult for families to engage in this treasured custom. No matter how far apart from each other families may live, today, young parents can be sure that there's one custom that will never change-the insistence by grandparents that they have to see their grandkids at Christmas. It's a custom that every grandparent seems to engage in, every holiday season. Even the most intelligent and aware and considerate grandparents seem to ignore the fact that air travel, these days, is more difficult than ever, for everyone. And it's not easy for two-career couples to find the time to travel to grandma's house, together, with the kids. It's no fun for any family to be pressured into spending time and money on travel, at Christmas, and it's even worse for families who have to travel with young children. By the time a family with tired toddlers has been through several crowded airports, and sat crammed into several planes, none of them are in a mood to enjoy the holiday. Rather than applying the kind of guilt that only they can apply, and making Christmas difficult for their childrens' families, grandparents should consider making the holidays as easy as possible for everyone concerned. A couple without children can travel for less money and with less hassle than their children, with their own young children, can. Grandma and Grandpa can stay in a motel, too, near their grandchildren, without making anyone lose their own bedroom. Many grandparents find that it's easier to visit their children and grandchildren a few days prior to Christmas, when it's easier and cheaper to travel, and when the families being visited aren't as rushed as they are on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Then, many older couples find, they can schedule their own holiday time, at a resort or hotel, in a quiet destination, when great prices can be found. This way, everyone gets to enjoy a peaceful and guilt-free Christmas.

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November 21, 2007

Hangings with Christmas Mantel Hooks and Christmas Wreath Hangers

by Susan Z Stritzlol

No other time of the year brings loved ones together like Christmas time. There is magic afoot while waiting with anticipation for Santa Clause to slide down the chimney bringing presents for all, while sipping on a nice cup of hot cocoa and reminiscing Christmas past. Since it is Christmas there will be stockings and a wreath of course. Wrought iron Christmas mantel hooks are both made of wrought iron as well as decorated with it. Since these hooks are so sturdy, they require no hooks to fasten them to the mantle. Wrought iron Christmas mantel hooks sit alone while holding a stockings full stash of goodies. Wreaths have been around for thousands of years. At Christmas time, we will usually find them made of evergreen, which is a symbol of the strength of life due to the fact that the evergreen can withstand the harshest winter. Today you will see the evergreen wreath laced with holly and pine cones and occasionally fake snow. Drive down any street and you will see wreaths on many doors. One of the most elegant ways to display that wreath is with a wrought iron Christmas wreath hanger. Wrought iron is very durable and sturdy. It isn't affected by the weather as other materials can be. Using a wrought iron Christmas wreath hanger takes away the worry of having to replace it each year; there will be no corrosion or rust. Plus wrought iron Christmas wreath hangers offer an elegant touch of beauty in a very simplistic way. You can find wrought iron Christmas wreath hangers in many popular styles, and the hooks will fit over most doors. They are usually finished in a powdered black paint. Some styles that you will find include a star, a Christmas tree, and snowflakes. Long ago, the fireplace served as hearth and heat, however today you can define your fireplace with an elegant, classic beauty by adding the simple touches of wrought iron Christmas mantel hooks holding your stockings while a wrought iron Christmas wreath hanger proudly displays your Christmas wreath. It is important to know that the fireplace has become a defining feature in a room. While many years ago the purpose of the fireplace was to produce heat, now it is a point of elegance in your home, and at this time of year, it is also a point of gathering. Adding simple touches such as the wrought iron Christmas mantel hooks can give your fireplace and your Christmas some classic simplistic beauty. Remember that there isn't a more durable or sturdy material to have your outdoor decorations made from. Wrought iron does not corrode in wet or harsh weather. It is also very sturdy so you no longer have to worry that your stockings are too full as long as you are using the wrought iron Christmas mantel hooks. You might also want to consider some wrought iron candle holders to accent your Christmas tree and other Christmas decorations. Just think of the smiles and twinkling eyes of the children as they spot their stockings all in a row brimming with Christmas cheer.

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November 7, 2007

Keeping Your Christmas Safe And Joyful

by J Gardener

It's that time of year, again, and Christmas is fast approaching. For most families, the holiday season is the busiest time of the year. It's the time of year for parties and celebrations, family gatherings and school pageants, and of course, shopping and wrapping. But despite all the activity, all the running around, and all the nights with too-little sleep, it's the time of year in which many families, especially those with small children, find the most joy. By adding a little bit of safety planning to the holiday calendar, families can also make sure that Christmastime is a safe time for all. For instance, just about everyone knows by now, or should, about the precautions which must be followed, when a Christmas tree is present in the home. Artificial trees these days look totally real, and modern Christmas lights are generally cool and safe. But fire isn't the only danger to little ones, when it comes to the Christmas tree. Most children are fascinated by and drawn to the colors and shapes of the ornaments, hanging from the tree. Parents need to teach their children that ornaments are not to be grabbed and pulled, or they could pull the tree right over on top of them. Ideally, ornaments should be hung high enough to be out of childrens' reach. Some families with young children even set trees on platforms or sturdy tables, high enough to be beyond the grasp of little hands. The use of strands of light to decorate is a common holiday practice in most homes. Parents should take care to keep power strips and extra electrical cords up, off of the floor. Light strands should be turned off, except when parents can be in the same room with children, to monitor their activity. Many families love to decorate their homes with live holiday plants, during the Christmas season. But, did you know that many of the most familiar holiday plants contain substances that are poisonous, when swallowed? When little children are present, it's best to use realistic-looking artificial plants as decorations. It's never rude to ask, before attending a holiday party or family gathering, away from home, if the hosts have a house in which it's safe for children to roam, freely. If not, then parents have the choice between keeping a very short leash on their little ones, which may not be pleasant for anyone, or letting their children spend the time at a friend's house or with a babysitter, instead. In order to keep the Christmas holidays special and joyful, a little safety planning and observation can go a long way.

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October 1, 2007

The Tradition and Love of a Christmas Decoration Ornament

A Christmas ornament is often a tradition among families.  Each year, a special time is set aside at the beginning of the holiday season to decorate the home.  Christmas decoration comes in a wide variety of forms.  From the traditional pine tree, to angels, and everything in between, there is no limit to the expanse of Christmas ornaments. 

It is common for both the interior and outside of a home to be beautified.  The interior regularly includes a pine tree loaded with ornaments, lights, and a large assortment of packages underneath.  Additionally, lights, garland, and candles are regularly displayed throughout the home to create a festive atmosphere. 

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September 18, 2007

How to decorate the outdoors without wreath and garland

The options available to display outdoor Christmas decoration are endless.  With a little creativity and some hard work, a unique display can be achieved.  Beyond the often over used wreaths and garland, a number of other decorations are available.  The use of lights, signs, figurines, and animated displays offer a great deal of flexibility and fun.  Additionally, one needs to keep safety in mind as they work with electricity and considerable distances off the ground.

A number of different lights are currently available on the market.  These lights offer a great deal of flexibility in outdoor Christmas lights and decoration.  Size, color, brightness and effects are all different options available.  A number of different formats are available.  Strings, nets, and ropes are just a few.  Each different type of light is designed for different techniques.  Using a combination of different light types offers a great effect.

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September 13, 2007

Get into the Christmas spirit and enjoy another wonderful holiday season

Christmas is a magical time when you stroll outside, the air is cold and crisp and often the sky looks a little grey but you still feel happy and walk with an added bounce in your step.  It makes you smile seeing the great job Jack Frost did on your windowpanes and you do not mind scraping the car windows before you can drive to go Christmas shopping.  You travel slowly down the street looking at all the fabulous light shows displayed on the houses and lawns of friends, neighbors and even strangers.  Fighting the crowds while shopping for the perfect Christmas gifts for loved ones, friends and co-workers, just adds to the excitement of Christmas.  This is all part of the joy of Christmas. 

 

If you have children, you hide their gifts because you know that just like you when you were a child, they will be hunting for them.  Sometimes you keep them at a friend’s house so the children do not find their Christmas gifts and you get a chance to visit while you wrap them.  If you have younger children, there are often bikes and doll carriages to be constructed or toys that need batteries put in them.  Do not forget to mail the children’s letters to Santa at the North Pole.  No matter how old your children are, even ones living away from home, they love Christmas stockings so stocking stuffers are necessary.  A great family tradition is to take your children to buy a few Christmas gifts and food items to donate to those less fortunate.  Christmas is a time for giving and enjoying the company of all people, not just those that you already know.         

 

 

Christmas morning finally arrives, gifts are opened and the turkey is stuffed and in the oven.  The Christmas tree glows and sparkles with tiny lights and beautiful Christmas ornaments.  Opened gifts sit under the tree; the children are playing while the adults sit and talk.  After all the hard work of preparing for Christmas, it has been worth every second.  Other family members and friends stop by to wish you Merry Christmas and to celebrate this wonderful holiday.  Everyone sits down to a lovely Christmas dinner of turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, and gravy.  Desert is often plum pudding or Christmas cookies, if you have any room left.  After tidying up and tucking the children into bed, you finally get to sit down and put your feet up.

 

At Christmas, many people celebrate Christ’s birth while others celebrate life and pray for peace and harmony.  We remember loved ones we have lost and reminisce about years gone by.  No matter how old we are, what race, heritage or upbringing, Christmas is a time to love, rejoice and live. 

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September 12, 2007

How to choose Christmas recipes that are favorites with everyone and still leave you time to spent with your guests.

There are many different Christmas recipes that you can use at Christmas time. For most people who celebrate Christmas, the holiday season is characterized by gathering of family and friends, feasting and giving gifts to each other. Christmas would be incomplete without the mention of Santa Claus, Christmas trees, mistletoe, Christmas cakes, cookies, puddings, other Christmas goodies and cards.

 

 Christmas recipe planning should be done with the precision and advance preparation of a military operation, so that the cook will enjoy it too. All the extra items that are needed for any Christmas recipes should be thought of well ahead of time. It is a good idea that you sit down and choose your Christmas recipes for the cake, puddings and meat, and then list all the ingredients that you will need for each of them. A good plan would be to start doing this in November.

 

At the beginning of December, decide on what meat you are going to buy and find out how much it will cost-at least this way you’ve made a start. Whether you are eating turkey or ham, any Christmas recipes just wouldn’t be complete without all the trimmings.

 

Whether the Christmas recipes are designed to be eaten formally at the table or buffet style-try to focus on foods such as roasts or casseroles. These may take a while to cook, but won’t need your constant attention in the kitchen. Whoever does the Christmas catering must also be able to enjoy themselves with everyone else, without having to spend too much time in the kitchen.

 

Buffets are a great way to manage feeding a crowd. Get as much done with your Christmas recipes as you can the day before-focus on foods that can be eaten at room temperature. It will save you a lot of time and work. Cover the food and remove it just before people go up to eat. When your guests walk through the door on Christmas day let the smells of all those Christmas recipes hit them. Keep a pot of mulled apple cider on the stove so the first thing that you can smell is a delightful mixture of cinnamon, clove and nutmeg.

 

Make extra large batches of items like spiced nuts, salad dressing or gingerbread in advance. The Christmas cake and most puddings should be made a month beforehand. If you’re not sure what to give them for dessert-solve the dilemma by asking your guests to bring a batch of their favorite Christmas deserts. Your guests can then show off their best Christmas recipes and everyone will enjoy the variety.


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August 30, 2007

Use our Christmas guides to spend less, stress less and have an unforgettable Christmas

 

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  5. Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer
  6. Gingerbread houses
  7. Cookie Christmas party
  8. Santa Themed party
  9. Christmas craft party

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  3. Borscht soup
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Table Of Contents

Introduction: The Single Mom’s Legacy

1 The Traditions and History Of Christmas
Christmas Traditions in North America 5
Christmas Traditions in South America 6
Christmas Traditions Down Under 8
Christmas Traditions in the United Kingdom 10
Christmas Traditions in Tropical Climates 12
Unique Christmas Traditions around the World

2 Christmas And Kids
Getting Children Involved in Family Traditions 18
Kids and Santa Claus 19
INFANTS AND TODDLERS 22
KIDS FROM FIVE TO TWELVE 22
BIG KIDS TO SIXTEEN 22
BEAD CHRISTMAS TREE ORNAMENTS 23
RUDOLPH THE RED NOSE REINDEER 24
PRE-BAKED GINGERBREAD HOUSE 24
PINECONE CHRISTMAS TREE 24
COOKIE CHRISTMAS PARTY 26
SANTA THEMED PARTY 27
CHRISTMAS CRAFT PARTY 27

3 Preparing A Wonderful Christmas
USING NATURE 29
NATIVITY SCENES 30
LIGHTING 30
POPYCOCK 35
CORNBREAD STUFFING 36
GREEN BEAN CASSEROLE 36
CHRISTMAS PUDDING 37
BORSCHT SOUP 38
TOURTIERE 39
CARROT GRATIN 39
STOLLEN 40

4 Craft ideas for gifts and decorations
CHRISTMAS CANDLES 44
BEESWAX CANDLES 45
POURED CANDLES 45
GEL CANDLES 46
Creative Crafts For Everyone 47
PUZZLES 48
RAG RUGS OR HOOKED RUGS 48
STAMPED CHRISTMAS CARDS AND GIFT WRAP 48
The Luxury of Armomatherapy and Other Natural Gifts 49

5 Christmas Entertaining
Unique Christmas Ideas for Office Parties 51
Ideas for Not-So-Usual Family Get Together 53
Ideas for Theme Parties over the Christmas Season 54
Making Room For family and friends 56
Stress relievers for busy people 57

6 Conclusion

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Christmas gifts for Hard to buy for family

It always seems like there is someone on the Christmas gift list that is much more difficult to buy something for than others. Often people decide to give these family members gift certificates or other genetic gifts that usually end up in the bottom of a drawer or up on a closet shelf.

If you want to make sure that your gift is meaningful and welcomed, try asking yourself a few questions about the person that you are buying for. By taking the time to answer these questions you will have a good basis of ideas to start your gift search.

What do I know about this person?
What is the kind of hobbies, interests, sports, crafts or other activities that the person likes to be involved in? Sometimes talking to other family members can help you out with this question.

What does the person enjoy?
Have you noticed that the person enjoys a particular type of cooking, or maybe they love to go to the movies. Do they seem to be a collector of anything? Many people get involved in collecting certain items that are rare or hard to find, which can make gift giving a bit difficult, but might give you other ideas. Fishing, hunting, hiking, bird watching and camping can all prove to be great starts to looking for a gift.

What colors and clothing styles does the person wear?
If they wear a lot of ties or sweaters that could help you out. Maybe they always have on a baseball cap whenever they come to visit. Often people really like a particular color. This can sometimes make gift giving really simple if you can find a gift in their color. For example, a golfer might really like a one-of-a-kind purple golf bag if purple is a favorite color.

Do they have any children or favorite pets?
Sometimes gift items with pictures of children, grandchildren, favorite pets or even favorite places can be a great idea. T-shirts, sweatshirts, posters, framed pictures, personalized mugs all can be very welcome gifts, especially if the picture is of one of their favorite things.

Do they travel?
Usually those that travel can always use space saving devices and items that are functional for travelers. Often new luggage or even a new briefcase is a great gift and something that is often not considered.

Are they indoors or outdoors people?
Indoors people may enjoy reading, crossword puzzles, crafts, movies, puzzles or other activities. Outdoors people may prefer bird watching books, hiking trail guides, tickets or lessons to a particular sport or event.

Do you have anyone you can talk to about them?
Sometimes the reason someone is hard to buy for is that we don’t really know him or her as well as we should. Doing a bit of investigating and talking to others in the family can be a great source of information.

One key to purchasing gifts for hard to buy for family is to not wait until the very last minute. Usually those hard to find gifts result in a last minute scrabble to find something, literally anything, to give as a Christmas gift. Instead of handling your difficult to buy for person’s gift this way, try buying for them first.

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November 30, 2007

Keeping Christmas Morning Forever

by J Gardener

Every parent understands the importance of Christmas morning in a child's life. It's the goal of most moms and dads to help St. Nick make the day as perfect as they can. The joy a child expresses at finding the mound of toys and goodies left under the tree by Santa Claus is something that makes every parent smile. Every Christmas is the same, for most parents-they want it to be perfect, for their kids. Years pass and the various ways families mark Christmas morning become their own specific traditions, habits that make them comfortable. However they choose to celebrate the morning after Santa's visit, through the years, the memory of their first Christmases will remain strong in their family fabric. Every Christmas morning is a time which is unique in its own right and can be recorded and preserved forever. There are many different kinds of media available, today, with which to record the occasion. Unlike years past, there's no training necessary to be the family photographer, today. Most cameras, either video or photo, are simple point-and-shoot devices, making their operations simple enough for anyone to use. A lot of families, today, have video cameras, to record their children's lives as they grow. A recoding video camera, set on a mantle or a tripod in a corner, is a simple way to record the magic of a family's Christmas morning. Mini-tapes and DVD's are easy to store and keep for later viewing. Digital photo cameras, today, are also simple enough for anyone to be the designated family photographer on Christmas morning. Many families are just more comfortable with photos than with videos, especially on a morning when everyone rises and heads to the tree, with little regard for how they look. Candid photos, though can often be more interesting and funny, later on, than even video. Generations from now, the descendants of today's families will appreciate the fact that someone took the time and effort to record their ancestors at such a joyful time as Christmas morning.

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November 18, 2007

The Constant Christmas Question

by J Gardener

One thing most parents would agree on, as December makes its way onto the calendar, is that Christmas is a time when children are the focus of most families' lives. We may plan many activities throughout the holiday season, but Christmas itself must be a joyous holiday for our kids. By early in the season, most parents have a pretty good idea what their kids want Santa to bring them, when he makes his Christmas Eve stop at their homes. Children are bombarded with TV commercials and advertising, convincing them, by early autumn, what they must find under the Christmas tree, in order to have a joyful holiday. And, of course, parents want to provide that magic which they know will light up their kids' eyes, as the gift-wrap disappears from those packages under the tree, and those treasures are exposed. To accomplish this, most parents fret for weeks and months about their ability to find every gift on their childrens' lists. But a lot of parents also feel pressure from other parents to help Santa provide a great pile of gifts for their kids on Christmas morning. As parents and kids talk, they share their Christmas stories, recounting their holidays. Parents, whether they admit it or not, want their efforts at Christmas to be envied by others, so many may overspend on their children as a way of showing off for their peers. Many family psychologists feel that most parents place too much emphasis on the wrong aspects of Christmas-the toys and goodies their children receive-than on the feelings those parents are really attempting engender with their gift-giving. Most families are so busy, today, that parental guilt over being absent so much is epidemic. So, lots of moms and dads find themselves substituting material things for contact. Perhaps if, instead of rushing off to the store for that extra doll or video-game, parents took that time and spent it reading or playing with their children, they'd find it much more valuable and effective, in making their children happy. When January rolls around, a lot of the new toys have been abandoned, to be forgotten. But a few moments with Mom and Dad could provide a permanent, happy memory that can never be replaced.

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