Families Sharing Holiday Duties

Every year, we wonder how we can possibly make it through the Christmas holiday season with our sanity intact. There's just always too much to do, and the calendar seems to get filled in completely, from October through December. In most households, today, two careers are required to make ends meet, so finding the time to do everything the season demands is harder than ever before. Every year, parents are forced to figure out how to manage careers and the events that make the holidays so special. Some activites just can't be enjoyed. This hectic modern life has meant the end of some of the most time-honored customs that families once observed during the holidays. Pulling out the old family recipe book, for instance, and spending days at the oven, doing all the Christmas baking, is something we only read about in history books or historical novels. Stringing popcorn, as hanging decorations, is an activity most kids today have never imagined. So many of the customs that used to be integral parts of our Christmas celebrations have been lost to the bustle of modern life. But it needn't be that way. Parents who'd like to keep those traditions from dying out, completely, can join in groups, to help each other maintain some of that vanishing charm of Christmas. When we were young and early December rolled around, for instance, we used to gather pencils and papers, and we carefully crafted the perfect letters to Santa Claus, asking for those goodies we wanted to find under our trees on Christmas morning. It took time, and Mom and Dad always helped us with the letters, mailing them when we were done. One way that parents can help each other is to share the oversight of such activities. Parents of schoolmates, or parents of kids in the same neighborhood can switch off, from year-to-year, the duties of hosting get-togethers for their kids, to tackle tasks like writing to Santa Claus. One family can have all the kids over on a Saturday afternoon, and one or two parents can help the kids all write their letters at the same time. The non-hosting parents can help out with food and writing supplies, and then can be free to spend the afternoon taking care of their own Christmas business, or everyday chores which will free them up for more Christmas activities. Those great old Christmas customs we used to love can be preserved, this way, while allowing time for mom and dad to handle the other business of the season. And ultimately, sharing these duties with the other parents in their peer group will create more time for their own families, which is what Christmas is all about.